Welcome to my blog. After 10 years of marriage, my husband and I decided in August 2016 to embark into a life embracing polyamory. A journey full of ups and downs and even higher ups and even higher downs led me to ask him for divorce in April 2017.  Now, I’m solo-poly with two amazing boyfriends.  I started this blog as a place to get out my thoughts and hopefully connect with a few people in the community.  I write as if no one reads, so I can be as authentic as possible.  If you have comments, advice, or thoughts, please let me know! I love respectful discourse of all kinds!